How do you tell your mom your pregnant if your a teenager?
Think about how your parents have reacted to other situations. Try to imagine how they might respond, but remember it's impossible to really know for sure. Still, thinking about what to expect can help you feel prepared for the conversation you plan to have
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There is no easy way to do this. But seeing as there is no other option, you sit them down an start at the beginning. Tell them everything. How it happend, what emotions you are experiencing, and what options you are considering. Be mature about this. If you can't face them, then write a letter. Ask… for their forgiveness, if they do forgive you immediatly or not is in their hands. (MORE)
How does a 16-year-old girl tell her mom she is pregnant when her mom thinks that the boyfriend and her don't see each other?
How Does A 16 Year Old Tell Her Mom She is Pregnant By The Boyfriend She Was Forbidden To See: . The same thing happened to me and I solved it by just letting my mother find out herself. I was too scared to tell her. . First be calm about it. Don't get scared. I'm about to have a baby. I'm so s…cared; I don't even know if I should tell my dad, but I am going to. Your mother should get to tell you what to do with your baby. So go to your mom and say, "Mom, I'm pregnant with the guy you thought I stopped seeing." If it happens to get messy, walk away and come back when she stops shouting. Moms have been getting this news for centuries. They can handle it. Just don't yell at her or it will mess up your pregnancy. . First, remember that she is your mom and she loves you and only wants what is best for you. She will probably be mad at first and yell and maybe say some hurtful things, but give her time to cool down before you respond in a bad way. She will also be disappointed because she thought you knew better. The sooner you tell her the better and she can and will help you in at least some ways. She will find out in a few months for sure anyway. The sooner you tell her the better off you'll be and it will be a lot of stress off of your back! . Well I'm sort of going through the same thing right now but I'm 15 not 16 and at the time I told my mom I already knew I was for sure pregnant but my advice to you is tell your mom. I was scared at first that she'd yell at me and my boyfriend's 23!! so I was scared she'd have him put away but she didn't she was actual happy about the baby and as far as my man goes she actual lets him stay the night with me now and me stay the night with him. Even my dad didn't trip about it. He was happy too and they're both going to help me with the baby, and my mom bought me $210.00 worth of baby supplies. So it never turns out as bad as you suspect. (MORE)
If your mom tells you she wants you to be her friend even though she's your mom too does that mean that she would be there for you if you got pregnant?
That question is impossible for a stranger to answer. Everybody is different. You know your mother better than anyone else could, and are far better able to make such a judgment than someone who doesn't know either of you. I think it depends more on the level of trust you have in your mother's love …and acceptance of you then on just a phrase she has used in talking to you. (MORE)
If you are 17 and just found out your pregnant how should you tell your mom if you know she will bug out but she got pregnant at the same age what should you do?
\n. \n Answer \n. \nTell her right away so the two of you can figure out what to do early, waiting can only make it much worse.\nStart off by saying mom I have to talk to you, I've made a terrible mistake.. and look to her for guidance.
The same way as anyone else, they have unprotected sex the sperm from the man fertilizes the woman's egg and hey presto - pregnant! Answer Get a book from the library, it will have all the answers you need. Dont you have sex ed? Answer Well apparently you haven't been informed very well abou…t the "birds and the bees". They become impregnated by having either unprotected sex or there contraceptive (i.e: birth control, condoms, others...) did not succesfully keep the woman from becoming pregnant; Some ways that the contraceptives may have failed are that the condom may have broken (what happened to me), they could have missed a day of the birth control, the condom can also "slip off" if it is too large for the male's "region", there are also many other ways that the contraceptives could have failed but those are the most often. Please educate yourself in the area of contraceptives because they really will save you from premature adult-hood, which i know as a pregnant teen is not a fun ordeal.The only way to be 100% safe from having a child at a young age or any age as a matter of fact if to practice abstinence which, in case you aren't sure what that is is where you refrain from having sex; atleast until you realize what you want out of life. I really hope I helped you sweetie; much love and may god bless you. -Jesseca Having sex (MORE)
Answer . just tell her confidently and don't feel embarrassed she went through the same thing
if your mom is having a baby she probably will be hungry allot so you will eat out allot then after 4 months she will buy lots of cloths and new things for the baby so on then also she will buy ma-be a new car or house to make room there is no reason to get mad over it but the baby may get more actt…ion than u and more gifts the most u can do is be happy later the baby will start to need about 8 diapers or more a day your mom may be sleepy allot so ma be over the weekend u can help her and make bottles and change the Dipper make sure that u can give your mom 9 hours of sleep on Fridays and sat.. so u don't go to school those days and she is rested it not your mom may start to get mad or so so make sure she has at least a 2hr naps on monday Friday when you come home from school let her have sleep and you could baby sit Ur brother or sister those are a couple of things you could do to help your mom (MORE)
My mother randomly told me to take a pee test when I was 28 weeks pregnant. I hid it very well since it was a cold season. But she was doing her monthly drug test and just decided to throw in the pregnancy test since she noticed I was getting bigger. Then when it came back positive, she knew and she… said " Who have you been f**king!??!!!" She was only mad for the rest of the night though. After that she was all smiles. (MORE)
Answer . Wait until the OBGYN tell you both that she is pregnant before saying anything and then both of you sit down and tell her. You'll have to tell both sets of parents but chances are they'll be excited after the initially shock. My sister was 18 when she found out and due in Dec. Everyone i…s excited now. In the beginning not so much but now everyone is excited!!. Answer . you dotn have to ply it by ear (MORE)
babies are an insane amount of money and work!! make sure you can afford it with food and insurance and bills and everything!! it costs thousands of dollars (literally!!) just to have a baby, let alone care for it and teach it everything it needs to know in life. make sure it will grow up in a hom…e and environment that every child needs with support, comfort and good healthcare. (MORE)
Yes, teens can get pregnant. Teenage pregnancy is actually quite a struggle. There are national campaigns geared towards education and prevention. See the related link below.
If you are like 30, it is totally up to you. If you are a teen, you need to go have a talk soon. You aren't going to be able to hide it forever. I have known teen girls with big round bellies still trying to deny the fact they were pregnant. Everyone knows, and they are just causing themselves more …problems. Go ahead and get it over with. Your mom might get mad. She might be upset. She might cry. She might yell. She will calm down. After she is over the initial shock, she can be your friend and ally. You are going to need help. You and your baby are going to need prenatal care. It can be dangerous for you not to go to the doctor and be seen. Whatever your choices are concerning having the baby or not, get proper medical care. (MORE)
A girl you know is pregnant but her mom would kill her if she found out should she not tell her mom and just get a miscarriage?
A pregnant girl can usually get confidential counselling. Under the circumstances (mom likely to be violent and/or irrational) I would recommend she get counselling right away, before she tells anyone else (word gets around, even if a best friend is told). A pregnant girl needs wise counsel, first a…nd foremost. (MORE)
As soon as a teenager reaches their first period and produces eggs they can become pregnant. Although, they are a lot more likely to have a miscarriage. . Miscarriages happen frequently only to young teens, not to older teens between 16 and 20. . Yes
I think you should be prepared to face the conseqeunces of your decision making. Tell your mom and tell her you realize the mistake you made. It was something made for only married couples. Not teenagers. Again, this was your decision, so you should be straightforward with her. Explain what you did …and why you regret it. (MORE)
You get a teenager pregnant by having sex with her. However, sex with teens is illegal is most parts of the world. In Sims, only adults can become pregnant. They've blocked teenage pregnancies in Sims to make a good impression on kids, adults and teens.
You are seventeen you just found out you are pregnant your mom is the executive director of a pregnancy center How do you tell her you are pregnant?
prepare for the worst. and remember that even if her reaction seems mean, it's out of love.
I am 17 mite be pregnant only be with my boyfriend of 21 a month how do i tell my mom if i turn out 2 be pregnant?
You go about it slow and easy, hold his hand maybe, sit across from them, offer to do whatever you can. I don't really know if this'll work, though.. When the person above says 'offer to do whatever you can.' that doesn't include getting rid of the baby unless YOU don't want it.
Grow up a little bit, you are an adult and should not need to ask this question.
If you plan on having this child you need to tell your parents. The sooner the better. They might be upset but usually parents are more understanding than you think. They can help you while you're pregnant. They've been through this and they know what to do. Your parents will find out eventually onc…e you start to show. And more likely than not your mother will be able to detect the changes you're going through. It's better they hear it from you than figure it out on their own.. Even if you decide not to have the baby, its best to tell your parents. Being a pregnant when you're a teenager is dramatic experience. There's a lot of emotions you'll be going through.. Best of luck to you. (MORE)
A pregnant doe will make a nest within 21 days of her pregnancy. She will pluck fur and carry straw to the nest. You can gently palpate her abdomen with your thumb and forefinger. The babies feel like hard peas. Also if she is in kindle she will not allow a buck to mate with her again and will run a…nd hide in dark corners. (MORE)
Amy never really tells him she's pregnant. It just kind of gets around school. He finds out in the first few episodes though.
Birth control fail No sex ed and/or only been taught abstinence Wanting a family because you and the boyfriend is so perfect together Always wanted to be a young parent Want someone to love them unconditionally Thinks it wont happen to them and once without condom is OK Feels too awkward… to ask for a condom when they are about to do it (MORE)
Well there's the classic "Hey mom, guess what? I'm pregnant!" but most people don't really go for that.. Just sit her down, be serious, and tell her what's up. She's probably going to be mad, but if you're mature and willing to talk things over with her, then you can probably work something out.
you get pregnant too and tell her mom its a new fad.(JOKING). or you just dont say anything because its none of your business. but tell your friend to see a doctor. and ask the doc
Well, first you have to go to a churchyard and say "I am dumb" 3 times, and then you have to cut your toenails and eat them, and same day you have to kiss a ladybug 10 times on the genitals... If you fall asleep within 12 hours, you're definitly a pregnant teenager. Congratulations honey, call MTV
okk most teens doesnt get along with their own mothers but u have to keep trying to deal with her like if shes being a pain just ignore her and u know sometimes moms try to make u feel guilty dont fall for it and dont always be sorry even if ur wrong trust me there gonna keep waiting for it!!so i pr…efer u get angry and deny them!!always try to convince ur self that there not here u know!!just be always cool and gd luck!!:P . well i think that mom should try and understand their children, personally i have issues with my mom and its becoming unbarable to handle or deal with her, so there is so much a one person can take. (MORE)
yes,right after Amy has her baby. TWINS! Ashley thinks the babies are her and Amy's dad's but Amy's mom thinks it's her boyfriend.
Yes, she does! She gains a lot of weight and everyone notices. She takes a pregnancy test and found out she is pregnant.
If you are unsure how to tell your mum you should tell another adult who you can trust. Perhaps a teacher, a youth worker or an aunty? If you are pregnant your mother will notice eventually and the sooner you inform her the sooner sensible decisions can be made about the future. The longer you leave… it the less options will be available. (MORE)
You need to tell your mom, even if it is very difficult. If you feel that this is impossible, talk to a school counselor, minister, pastor, report it to Child Aid, or the police.
1st: they have 2 haave a baby father 2 get pregnet . 2nd:someone will avenyuly help tyhem trake care of their baby because theres always a nother man that has more responcibility
This all depends on the type of mom you have. If i had to tell my mom i would: I would sit her down and just tell her, as soon as you find out for sure. Its better to tell her then keep it from her, and she'd probably appreciate it if she knew right away. I would also tell her how you feel abo…ut the pregnancy whether your scared, or confused. Moms always know how to help and know what to do. She may be angry or very "disappointed" at first but give her some space for a bit, she needs time to soak in that her daughter is bearing a child. There is lots of help out there so don't feel alone, there are adoption programs etc. hope this helps and good luck with everything :) this site might help to for telling your mom http://kidshealth.org/teen/sexual_health/girls/tell_parents.html (MORE)
Well, I am guessing that you are not near old enough to get pregnant nor in a good situation. Talk to her about it in a sense that "one day" you look forward to being a mom. That is a perfectly natural instinct (and it is very hard to ignore at times). Sometimes that instinct is even greater when yo…u are in the most inopportune situations. Women crave that feeling having someone to need them and it seems as if getting pregnant will satisfy that need. But if you aren't in the best situation right now, don't let that control your realistic thoughts. Think about stuff such as: If I had a baby today, do I have a job to pay for the medical bills? Do I have enough education to provide my baby with the best that I possibly can? Am I in a relationship that will provide my baby with the best family? Do I have enough money for food, clothes, diapers, baby wipes, doctor visits, car seats, strollers, bibs, bottles, etc? Women are really good at wanting and yearning for situations and wanting them right now but overlooking the quality of the situation. Women who want to get married right away, often find that it is easier to wait until both people in the relationship have a job and can provide for each other and pay the bills. It's easy to want a baby, but you have to look at what else comes along with the baby make sure you can give the best for you baby. Talk and romanticize about one day when you will become pregnant but in the mean time just keep at that, enjoy your life until that time comes. (MORE)
It may be shocking to you, but your Mom got pregnant that way that all women get pregnant- by having sexual intercourse. If you do not understand what that means (we DO have some very young folks around here) there is a link under this answer that can help give you some information.
They get an abortion and then go home so their daddy can beat their ass real good...
This is a tricky issue which varies greatly from state to state and by your circumstances. Your county probably has a legal aid department or a community social worker who can help you in your local area. As a public school teacher, I saw too many 28 and 29 year old grandmothers. All of them wanted …to have some level of parental rights but most had no legal rights even if they were providing support to the teen mom and baby. (MORE)
Tell her that mom im pregnant and depending on who your mom is she'll understand.
Many do not this is a mistake they will find out eventually pregnancy causes growth in the stomach
No RIGHTS, just responsabilities. The courts protect rebels and out of control teenagers, as soon as they start crying and lying, then you become an abusive, control freak parent. When a teenager learned how to play the system you are in trouble, no matter how good, responsible, honest and har…d worker person you are. * (because the system is control by case workers, state agencies, institutions ... usually depends how wise, smart,caring is the person in charge) Answer: The one thing you have as a right is to make medical decisions regarding you and your baby. (MORE)
she is not. but she became a teen mom by giving birth to him. so she was a teen mom, just not anymore. she is 37 in 2011.
Well, I broke the news by having a heated argument with my girlfriend about getting an abortion in front of my mother.
I would suggest waiting until it's just the two of you or ask her to set aside some time for a personal talk. When the time is right just come out and tell her - there's no leading up to this conversation. Expect some tears and possibly even for her to be angry - allow her some time for this to si…nk in if need be. Don't wait, there are a lot of decisions to be made, along with doctors appointments. (MORE)
If I were you, I would keep her/he. The minute you lay eyes on your baby, you will fall in love with he/her. If your under 16 and you don't have anyone (someone living in your house) willing to take care of her/he while your gone, get a pregnancy agent. Consider adoption. They will discuss and reall…y help you out on figuring out what is best for you and the baby. After four monthes of pregnancy, it can't be whats right for you-whats right for the baby. Take a deep breath. Its up to you. Its not your fault your pregnant. 100% up to you. (MORE)
Look you are gonna have to tell them that your are pregnant they will understand they possibly cant ignore their daughter being pregnant no matter how mad they are.
Let you mom "announce" or tell other people she is pregnant. That is her role, not yours.
Im not really sure if i was you id tell her then leave her to cool down a bit and see what she says after she might be ok and allow you to have the child if she trusts the guy Hope this helps goodluck =)
What is the reaction of your parents when you tell them your pregnant even though you dont have a good relationship with your mom?
Every parent are different but common reactions are sadness, disappointment, anger etc. Not positive in other words. They see you quit school and live on welfare and not getting a good job. They know how hard it is to have a baby when there's 2 people caring for it and you will be alone. They want b…etter for you. (MORE)
Because she is your mother u came out of her and she maybe gave up her dreams for u so u can live your dream even I hate that but I still love
That would be between her and your father or any other man she chooses to be that child's father.